Should I break up with my partner?
Should I break up with my boyfriend or girlfriend? 10 honest questions about trust, respect, arguments and your future help you decide.
š Question 1 of 10
How do you usually feel when you're together?
How it works
Answer 10 quick questions about your situation. Each answer nudges the result one way or the other, and some are dealbreakers on their own. You get one of three verdicts, the reasons from your own answers, and practical tips. Everything is worked out in your browser: your answers are never sent to us.
What could the result be?
- š It may be time to end it: Your answers suggest this relationship isn't giving you what you need. Ending it is hard, but you deserve to feel happy, safe and respected. Lean on friends and family, and plan the practical side.
- š¤ Talk first: it might be worth working on: There are real problems, but also reasons to stay. Have an honest conversation about what needs to change. Couples counselling can help you both decide.
- ā¤ļø It sounds worth fighting for: Every relationship has hard moments, and yours has a lot going for it. Tell your partner what's bothering you, and spend some time on the things you enjoy together.
Tips
- Write down what's wrong and what would need to change: it makes things clearer.
- Couples counselling works best before things get really bad.
- If you decide to leave, plan the practical side: money, where you'll live, and who'll support you.
- Your safety comes first: if you feel unsafe, get support before you act.