Should I text them?
Should I text him? Should I text her? Should I text my ex? 10 quick questions tell you whether to hit send or put the phone down.
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How it works
Answer 10 quick questions about your situation. Each answer nudges the result one way or the other, and some are dealbreakers on their own. You get one of three verdicts, the reasons from your own answers, and practical tips. Everything is worked out in your browser: your answers are never sent to us.
What could the result be?
- š¤ Send it!: The timing's right and your reasons are good. Keep it short and friendly, then put your phone away and get on with your day.
- š¤ Wait a little, then decide: It's not a clear yes. Sleep on it, reread your message in the morning, and send it only if it still feels right.
- šµ Put the phone down: Now isn't the time. Write it in your notes app instead if you need to get it out, and talk to a friend. If they want to talk, they know where you are.
Tips
- Keep it short, light and easy to reply to.
- Avoid texting late at night or after drinking.
- One unanswered message is enough: don't double-text.
- Write it in your notes first and reread it in an hour.